Wow, just wow.


I don't even know what to say except that I feel really bad for you.


Yes you cheated first, but what he did was calculated, well thought out and down right cruel.

Plus he spent your joint finances on it!


I doubt I could ever live with that, 17 years or no.


I'm pretty sure it would drive me insane, all the doubting, mistrust, cross questioning.

I just couldn't live like that indefinitely.


Again, I'm really sorry, and also my condolences to you on the loss of your mother.