In huge trouble at school. I was referred to the school's disciplinary board for:

Failure to demonstrate interpersonal and professional competence with faculty.

It is regarding a disagreement I had with a past Professor, but may also be due to the fact that when venting to my academic advisor, I told him that the Professor was an "a s s h o l e." So he referred me for disciplinary action based on the conversation where I told him about the disagreement.

The "conversation" between the Professor and I is here:

https://www.dropbox.com/s/94x0t8lu30...spect.pdf?dl=0

I discussed it with my therapist and she doesnt think it should be something for the disciplinary committee, but I didnt show her the printout of the emails. But basically just told my adviser about it and told him I thought the Professor was an asshole and then he referred me.

Was I being disrespectful to the Professor or demonstrating "interpersonal and professional incompetence?"

I pay 2750 per class, I don't feel like requesting Professor feedback after being told my work had to be graded with leniency and being refused is something that is okay. How am I supposed to do better on the next paper if I don't know what was wrong with the previous one?

To be clear: it stopped being about the 1 point/A- when he told me he was lenient in grading. At that point I was offended bc I don't turn in anything that requires a Professor to grade leniently, and if ever I lose points on anything, I am speaking with the Professor after class to ask the reason for each deduction if it was not written on my paper. The price we pay for courses, feedback should be included and I have never had a Professor refuse to tell me what is wrong with my paper, except this one. (I believe he never read the paper, to be honest.)

I feel like I cant do this, that its just proof I am not meant to be a therapist, I am not meant to be in graduate school, and I've just wasted the last year of my life on a degree I will never finish.