Thread: Where to look?
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Old Nov 30, 2015, 01:45 PM
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I've been divorced for over three years. I don't have a clue where to look for a new girlfriend. I was with here for over 12 years. So I haven't had to look for over 15 years. Dating seems different. I've tried a couple of internet sites. Bars don't work for me either. I'm very shy. Where would you guys look???
I met my boyfriend of over a year on OK Cupid. That was after like, 8 years of being on there and meeting a few people that I became good friends with but no one that I had any "spark" with. So I don't know if that is good success or not? I more just stayed on there to cover my bases, there aren't many people compatible with me in the area/state that I live in so not a lot of prospects! It's harder to meet people these days, sadly. If you have any interests that you could go to a group or class for, to meet people with similar interests. I know some places have "meet up" groups but my area doesn't. Maybe volunteer if you have time, just think outside the box of ways to spend more time around people with similar interests. At the very least, you'd meet some new friends!
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