This was recently brought up to me as being a possibility and I wanted to throw this out there to you for opinions.

My father was physically and verbally abusive to me until he died when I was 21. However I have the best relationship with him and miss him the most of my mother, sister, and I. Neither of them were ever physically abused so I think I have more reason to be angry and resentful but I miss him.

Am I crazy or is this common?