I use to sit in the waiting "room" and be sure my T wouldn't show up. . . this was after 5-6 YEARS of her never cancelling/not showing up.

I often had/have songs that reminded me of T and therapy. I don't think I told her about any though because she was from a different background/nationality and I doubt she would have heard of the songs :-) Anytime she mentioned a book or movie I'd get it/go see it and we NEVER had the same taste in such things and I didn't like the books she liked or the movies but use to give her books I had/liked -- don't know why I thought she'd like my taste if I didn't like hers LOL.

I think you'll be okay, Almeda, having told your T about the song. Every now and then it's good to do something scary like that and see that nothing "bad" happens as it helps with the trust and increases the space around you where you're "safe."