Almeda, I think it's so cool and brave that you shared that with your T.

On days that I have T every time my cell phone rings I jump thinking it's him cancelling. He has never cancelled on me like that before. The only cancellations are ones that he tells me about weeks in advance. Does hold any value to me? Of course not! I still freak out about it.

I have so many songs that remind me of my T and my relationship with him.

So far the only one that I told him about is the one that has a sarcastic value to it.

I am a big Elvis fan. There is one song that is called "(Such an) Easy Question" and in the song, Elvis sings the lyrics, "Such an easy question.... why can't I get an answer?"

I told T that I was fed up with him always answering my questions with another question. I told him that he reminded me very much of this song.

He said he wasn't familiar with the song so I told him the lyrics. Then I told him not to feel bad that he didn't know the song because it wasn't exactly a shining moment in Elvis' 60s catalogue.