I' a thirty year old man. I'm not a virgin, but I have essentially been celibate for about 9.5 years. I say, better to be a virgin and be in control of that aspect of your life than lose your virginity to somebody whose name you don't even know while drunk, like I did. Ultimately, it's a personal decision and anybody who isn't cool with it isn't worth your time. It shows you have self-control and that's a good thing! The right person will come along eventually.