Canders...I just read the entire thread. I'm so sorry you are feeling hurt and sad! I sense you are feeling that your feelings far exceed his, and that though he was nearby and didn't call you, it was disappointing and hurtful to you. Then seeing him again, you just "hung out," not talking much. I think this is just perpetuating your feelings of sorrow. Also, you've given him money since he's broke and then bought him lunch. I'm not judging you about this because I've done much the same, only bigtime! But, sweetie...you need to be with someone buying YOU lunch!, caring for you, calling you, and not taking you for granted. Time to clear your head and let this fella go!
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Patty