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Originally Posted by uncle-d
Just wanted to add, the thing that hurts the most is i think that if i wasnt so insecure, clingy, needy, dependant, we could have been perfect together. I bring the blame on myself and feel that my problems have ended this. Its hard to take her off the pedestal by thinking about the negatives in the relationship because i feel like my state of mind and my actions caused all this. If only I wasnt the way i am, it could have been the best thing in my life
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word should be stricken from the English language. No one and nothing on this earth is perfect. It appears you have invested your entire self-worth in how well or how poorly your love relationship is (or was) going.
What else do you have going for yourself? If you want to model healthy manly behavior for your son, explain what you have here to your counselor and keep working at developing a healthy, more-well-rounded life..