Yes, thank you. That get's to the heart of my long post. I was feeling uncomfortable. I'm afraid of getting into a relationship because my last tries at it left me feeling a bit stupid, and hurt. I'm a genuine honest and caring person. I try my best at being open. But if someone is pushy or needy it makes me uncomfortable. A bit wary even, that that person isn't looking for who I'm about, but rather what I look like and how far I'm willing to go for them. I told him I'm busy and I am.. he just suggested things we can do because I said I'd like to do something together like bowling. He made me uncomfortable when I saw him last because he asked for a kiss. I think this shouldn't be requested, just a natural thing once you acutally feel a bond of some kind. A few coffee dates isn't enough for that. Sometimes I'm ready to give up on the idea of finding friendship and real love with a man.