Hi Friends,
Today is a much better day.
After the support I received here yesterday, I was able to make myself not pressure my husband today about his job search.
I concentrated on catching up in the kitchen, and then paying some bills. I even made a dentist's appointment for me, so I can get my teeth cleaned before classes start.
Now low and behold husband has jumped into action and has been working on cleaning the bathroom. He's a couple of days late, but who's counting.

Husbands who clean the house are pretty rare me thinks.
Thank you all for your support, and helping me to see things differently.
Hugs,
EJ