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"I told her that I just can't seem to stop fighting with her all the time and I don't want to be the one to upset her. I assured her I would help her out financially, but I need to keep a distance for my own health as well. I told her how I had to start taking anti depressants again as a result of this month long fight with her."
IMO I do not think it is right to tell someone that you had to go on an antidepressant because of them. That blame game is still there.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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