I'm sorry for your struggle.
I understand the love & loyalty to family but when they commit crimes, it is THEM who chose to break the law.
No one wants to see loved ones suffer or punished but sometimes, they need those things to help them so it never happens again.

You didn't do these things. You can't control the situation or outcome.

Though, I am a very empathetic person, I feel Others pain deeply. I have had to learn to separate myself from it.
To put responsibility back on the shoulders of those who chose their paths.

I pray you can find peace & not let this take you even lower.