It sounds like he likes to be the center of attention. And if your attention isn't enough for him then that's a problem. He will eventually begin to wander in the marriage. What if you walked up to his little group and put your arm around him? Would he even include you in the convo or just treat you like a piece of decor? The kind of guy that likes to hear himself talk too I bet. I know the types and they are usually the ones looking for the next best thing. Now I apologize if I have him all wrong seeing I don't know the guy. I'm only speaking from experience. I've dated a guy like this. I eventually started waking up in the middle of the night with him and my car gone. Pass codes on his cell ect. Just be very careful and be observant.

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