Being a mom is one of the hardest while rewarding jobs there are and if he can't see that in you then it's time for counseling. You guys need to bring this up with a mediator because fighting it out at home probably won't change him. He should be respecting you as the mother of his kid. If I were on an allowance I'd feel crappy too. Marriage is not a one way street. What's yours is his and vice versa. You may not work outside the home but taking care of the house and a child is a full time job that you never get to clock out of or get paid for. Do you guys fight about this yet or is this your first time coming out about it? Yes, I said "yet" because i believe this is a topic worthy of a argument for me at least. I'd be pissed!

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