[QUOTE=divine1966;4784312]I think it didn't take off because it's rather vague. Do you have examples?

If I have communication problem with my partner and it's not getting resolved then it would be the sign of something is wrong in a relationship. I've been in relationships where people who refused to discuss anything at depth. Obviously these relationships couldn't last as these people weren't emotionally available.

I don't have problem communicating but battled attraction to people who can't Communicate. I finally have a partner who has no problem communicating. [QUOTE]

Hi Devine , I want to try and answer your question. Lets put it this way. I'm mainly talking about true inner feelings. I will try and explain. I may have done something that either hurt her or she doesn't understand. So instead of sitting down like two adults and talking about how she really feels about it she'll get mad and leave the room. I'm not a mind reader , she has to talk to me .
Or she may not understand what I'm saying ,as if I was talking English and her Chinese. I think 99% of arguments are caused by either one or both parties not clear about something ,or NOT wanting to understand.
I think it's mainly a problem of people not really talking about THE problem but instead using all kinds of avoidance mechanisms to get OUT of talking about it. I really don't know any other way to say it. Communication is two, ( or more of course ), people talking about something and understanding each other.

You can "know" somebody for 40 years and still not really "know" them if they never communicated to you their true self.