i love the thought of communication. if it were up to me everyone would have at least a counselor or good friend to talk to. people need to vent at times, i don't like the thought of anyone being lonely as i spent my teenage years alone and confused for lack of not knowing how to communicate. it makes me sad to even think it could be so bad to be as lonely as i was and even had a suicide attempt. the strange thing is too, i was the second eldest of 11 kids too. i hate to think of what i survived with them. oh well i'm here in a safe place married for 20 years now, with a 24 year old son. thank you God for helping me get through all the things i've endured. i am glad to be alive after 3 car accidents too. good luck to everyone.