I feel like becoming a hermit. I have a hard time defending myself lately. I know I say and do things that cause others to dislike me (mostly blurting out things). I sometimes like to argue just for the sake of arguing.

I'm working on my own issues, but get discouraged by the number of people I avoid because it's just too painful to interact with them.

I think it's mostly an issue because I've developed a harsh personality, but I'd actually rather live at peace with people.

Can anyone else relate?