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Old Dec 02, 2015, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Seraphine View Post
Not married but might as well be. Been together 14 years now, and yeah he is their dad. I've thought on it often, I'm pretty sure I'm codependent. As one guy says, I've taken the chocolate, for a long time. Porous ego boundaries. But idk what to do. Since my boundaries have been tightening up, life has been even more turbulent.
That sucks, and it's so true, when you start upholding boundaries the people that walk all over you HATE it. He sounds like someone that might not need to be in your life anymore.
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