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Old Dec 02, 2015, 09:00 PM
Kp15 Kp15 is offline
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Member Since: Dec 2015
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Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
If he's not willing to commit now, he's never going to. It's not about letting the ex win, but leaving a bad situation before it gets any worse.
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Originally Posted by FireIsland123 View Post
If she is so awful, why does he have ANY contact with her? Unless they have minor children, WHAT do they argue about? When will he cut off contact? When you get engaged? Married? Never? Truthfully, he sounds like a great pal to go bowling or fishing with, but there is only room for TWO people in a relationship (unless that's OK with you). Sorry to be so harsh. But YOU dont have to do anyting. He has to choose.
About a year and a half ago I asked him why does he keep her around and he told me because he doesn't want to see another man reap the benefits of the work he put in with her while they were together. I'm not sure exactly what the arguments are about and I'm not saying that she is the only one wrong but from my understanding she is very selfish and they just don't see eye to eye on anything.