My long-term friend who has girlfriend and they are living together for a long time told me he had sexual fantasies about me and Im so attractive and desirable. He always told me he is attached to me because we are friends for so long time.
I asked him does he have romantic feelings for me and he said no.
Im really confused and I cant understand how it is when your opposite sex friend is attached to you, sometimes thinks about sex with you but doesnt want to act on it because he has a girlfriend and he loves her. They also have a baby.
We are friends for 7 years and we never had romantic relationships.
If I told someone that Im attached to him and have sexual fantasies it would mean that I have a crush on him and I think its romantic feelings. I would understand it if he wanted to cheat on his gf with me but he doesnt because he loves her not me.
But Im so confused. What do you think about it? Maybe I just cant understand men, maybe its normal for them to think about sex with every attractive girl. I can understand that good friends attach to each other but...