Not sure where I confused you...sorry...

I have a set amount I pay monthly...many individuals who pay the child support believe that is where their finanancial and sometimes relationship obligation ends...obviously I don't...

In my state there is the child support guidelines and medical care for the children if my job offers it. Sorry, about the bare minimum and lack of relationship...

I have my three at least three overnights and then countless other dates...I had it put in the decree that when ever reasonable that I would have the kids before use of daycare or a babysitter...I kept the house, so the kids would have their same rooms...

Anyway...I have access to many attorneys in the office buildings I manage...I'm sure we can get some general questions answered...also I'm a fine print reader...so I can comb through your states laws...can't remember if you gave your state...but if you want help I'm there...

I dislike it when guys give men a bad name...I take every opportunity to help them see the light so to speak...