TheoBradley, wow! Just wow. I don't have any real advice or magic fixes for you. I'm sorry. I really wish I did. I will say I have lived in my car before, with dogs. In the winter they help keep you warm. If that's your only avenue of escape, get an SUV with a sizeable rear and some of those large cabiners to hang your bags up on the hand grips. It will give you more space.

Not knowing how old you are, I don't know what to tell you, except that if you're over 18 (as it sounds like you are), I would get out of there as soon as you can. Is there any way, after so many calls to the police that you can get her help whether she wants it or not? It really sounds like she needs a professional.

Also, if you don't have a therapist, perhaps you could look into finding one who is willing to work pro bono. I know mine does, but he's nowhere near you, I don't think. Unless you are in the very northern part of Indiana. I'm not saying you have a mental illness here, just that after so much mental and emotional abuse, therapy can do you a whole lot of good to pick up the pieces and get your feet on the fround.

Otherwise, I just wanted to say that what you are going through sounds truly challenging. I'm so sorry.