I had fear for no reason for tonight's session. T and I talked about last session and I told him about my assumptions on what he thought about what I said about channeling him and our song. Again, it is not an inappropriate song, it's a happy, upbeat song that focuses on the future.
He said if it was 'our' song he would want a say in that. It wasn't quite this blunt, I am forgetting the context of the conversation but I think he said it twice. There is a point there and I need to think about it.
He is glad that I shared my feelings with him and said he was sorry if he mishandled his response. He did say that I try often to see where he is with with something or what he thinks.
I guess the point is that I do not need to be focusing on what he thinks...ha wouldn't that be nice! I do this with everyone. I'll work on it though.
Next session my mom comes with me...that will be entertaining...
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