((((((((((((( Sincity )))))))))))))

So sorry this happened to you hon. I can well imagine how uncomfortable that made you feel.

I think, if I were in your shoes I would not hesitate to tell the wife. And I have a couple of reasons for this.

The first would be this - Since your SIL obviously could care less about your feelings or that of her own sister, she would probably have no qualms about turning the situation around and making you the bad guy. Let you wife know right off the bat so that she is armed with the truth.

Second reason - I would not want to hold back on telling my spouse anything like that for I want to always have open communication and trust with my spouse. Holding it back will cause you needless worry and fear. Bringing it out into the open can give you peace of mind in the long run.

It may not be a pretty sight when you do tell her, but at least you will both be able to work through it and lay your boundaries with SIL. I think your wife has a right to know what her sister is doing, and you have a right to your personal space and to feel comfy in your own home! Shame on her!!!

Hugsss
sabby