We would need to check your state...

My state now requires child support and kid's medical. I think it added the medical part a few years ago...it was just part of what I agreed to...

So medical insurance should be on top of child support. You probably would be responsible for the first $xxx amount and then after that some kind of split...example my ex is responsible for the first $500 and then a 10/90 split...generally she picks up copays...I take care of their glasses...we haven't run into anything big...

In my state after a certain point of overnights...there is a credit given to the one paying paying child support...I decline to take the credit...just want to see my kids more and not turn it into money...I haven't really added up the days the are with me...we have are fairly agreeable to make things work best for the kids...

Just wanted to bring up the credit for overnights...just in case it is in your state and soon to be ex wants all these overnights...since he hasn't been their for them for I think you said six years...it would probably be easy to prove that it is an attempt to reduce child support...