How did things go with your therapist? I've been thinking a lot about you as my father is in the middle of a court case for something he did. I agree it changes your life. My therapist said it's like grieving for the person you thought they were and accepting their mistake. It's so hard though! I felt my world kind of shatter when I found out about it a few months ago. Hoping you are doing ok in the midst of this hard time.