Ok Pete, I'm going to assume this person was loaded. If not he is just very very insensitive. From what I have seen of you here I do not perceive you as stupid or a dickhead. In fact just the opposite. Come on, you are the one who said that you are egocentric. What ever! I think we all are to a degree but your being concerned about being that way tells me that you care about others or it wouldn't be any biggy. All my life I have tried to fit into everybodys mold of who and what I should be. It don't work and people tend to not care to much for those who do not follow that so called norm. Glad to hear your moving on to better things.
skylrks