So I have a bit of a dilemma and could use some advice. The guy that I'm seeing says that I'm kind of cheesy and that he doesn't need to respond to every cheesy thing I say. Basically, I'm a very guarded person and I am afraid of getting hurt in relationships. When I say cheesy things it's because I am unable to read the other person and I'm looking for reassurance. Is this something that I just need to overcome? Or should I be with someone who is willing to give me that reassurance? When I text him (which isn't very often, we exchange maybe 10-20 texts per day) he says that sometimes he doesn't feel like stopping what he's doing to text me back. Understandable. Everyone gets busy. But it's not like I'm sending him a whole bunch of texts or texting every 5 seconds until he responds. I'm pretty laid back in that sense. I just wonder if I can make it work with someone like this or if I need to be with someone more attentive and reassuring. Thoughts? In my past relationships, it seems like the ones who are good at reassuring are scumbags and I end up getting hurt in the end. The type of guys who just tell me what I want to hear