I work in a team of 7 men and I'm one of 3 women

The 2 women (one is my manager) sit together at the side of office and I'm in and amongst the guys so to speak. I prefer working with men so this suits me fine.

My manager is very very blunt and condescending at work. Not just to me but anyone in the department (apart from the other lady she sits next to) and I actually fear asking her any questions as I get such snappy answers or 'I can't deal with that right now' when I just call her name. I find I'm making a few mistakes and missing things out as I'm worried she talk to me like crap if I ask something.

If I question how to do something she usually responds with 'the way you're doing it is wrong, this is the right way'

I just hate the way she barks at everyone and me.

Recently her manager who is also our department had lost his dog who was part of the company as she was always in the office. I mentioned quietly to a colleague sitting near me that is so sad the dog has passed away as he usually takes her for a walk on a lunch break and he'd just left to go for his lunch by himself now as she sadly passed

My manager snapped up quite loudly and with a disgusted look on her face and said 'shhhh please be quiet he is still in the office!' As if I'd said something awful!

This made me feel really upset and nearly close to tears as I just said that it's a sad time

Sorry for be rant just wanted to get it off my chest