Cake, I agree with Liz, don't be a doormat for everyone letting them walk all over you.
Make them take responsibility for their selves and if they don't then let them suffer the consequences. Take care of yourself and let them do the same.
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Wishing everyone a very happy holiday.
(Call me CJ)
''still crazy after all these years''
“My need to solve the problem is the problem.”
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