Sunny,

Your response was very thoughtful. Yes, the stress was hammering at me--you really got it!

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wever, I don't think the last session before a 3 week break is a good time to discuss this. Too much tension and anxiety about the impending separation. You want to be able to really feel good about that conversation, and that would be hard with the separation looming. It would detract from what could be a positive experience. Does that make sense?

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Yes, it makes perfect sense. I don't hate the idea of review/goals. I wish he would have given me a heads up so I could prepare as well. This was definitely not the time for this, and it has to be a do-over!

I called him again today but haven't heard back. he's probably away already. I'm not in good shape, I've realized several other triggers from yesterday. I've been crying all day.

Have to go pick up my son and put on the happy Mom face.

Thanks for your insight.