If I can explain something more I am happy to

I should also say the T apologized for reacting that way and agreed he should have taken a deep breath and continued on.

I'm just so hung up on the fact he actually got up and left. I have huge abandonment issues though but it's still crazy. I didn't even cry as I was just shocked. I called DH and said um I think I'm being told to leave or something?

The misunderstanding was that T told me if I arrive early to call and see if I can go in and sit in the T room rather than wait outside. I was early so called but was then told that wasn't what was meant, it was only if I was early due to the bus being early not if my schedule made me early. T was angry that I didn't want to discuss this issue.