He had said before that if I arrived early I should call and if he was able to he would let me in. I was early so I called. As it turned out he only meant if the bus was early so I wouldn't be hanging out in the cold and not if I got a ride that got me there early. I should mention that I was late the week before due to traffic but that my being late was also only allowed if the bus made me late. BTW in 2 years I have only ever been late this one time.

This is private practice. He went and sat in his living room

I have been in therapy with him for over 2 years.

He apologized and said he knew he had reacted badly. He should have taken a deep breath and given me the benefit of the doubt that I wasn't trying to start an argument.