Hello again, Fightharder: I believe I just replied to another of your posts. From having read your two posts, it sounds like you have been seriously traumatized by the bullying you have endured at work. Healing from this kind of experience can be a challenge. Is there any possibility of you seeing a therapist? From my perspective, there is no simple answer here. You need to have someone, presumably a professional, with whom you can process what has happened to you. This takes time, as well as effort. Plus, you need to learn ways to help your family heal because they have also been affected.

Beyond that, perhaps it's time to start looking for another job, if that is a possibility. From what you've written, it doesn't sound as though your situation at work is likely to improve much any time soon.

I'm pretty sure these are not the kinds of suggestions you had in mind. But I think the reality of the situation may be that there simply are no simple solutions. Realistically, you may not be able to recover the life you had... the person you used to be. But you can move on from where you are now become an even better person. I wish both you & your family well... (PLease keep posting here on PC, as well...)