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Why don’t you start by making a mental list of situations/places/events/things that gave you a sense of worth and security? I imagine it’ll look something like a ‘favorites’ list—favorite people, places, pets, time of day, season of year, etc. It might also look like an ‘accomplishments’ list—this or that thing you did well, compliment you received, things like that.
Whatever it is that all of those things on the list have in common, maybe that thing is your ‘place.’ It might not “look” like anything at all—it might just be a feeling that you can, over time, internalize and carry with you.
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