What kind if reassurance are you seeking? Do you seek it often?, because I get the distinct impression (re:scumbags) that this is not just about him being away.


My suggestion?

Be direct, straightforward, blunt....

Because whatever it is you're doing is currently open to interpretation. i.e cheesy, and thus not working.


On the other hand, if you simply are being cheesy, that's how u do things and you're not interested in changing it , (IDK I wasn't there) then accept that you're kinda cheesy, and work with it.