Thank you Jaybird. I think you are right he felt invaded and was then further put out that I got defensive when he tried to talk about it. (I was confused he was being cold and angry and that I was doing as asked and still in trouble)

In the end I don't know how to get over the fact he didn't like th way I was responding and so just left. This triggered me so hugely. People just leaving. I spent the session making sure he was ok so I wouldn't be left again and who cares if I'm ok.

Do I go back and talk this through? Risking being left again.