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He said, "yes, you and I are very close and we are very open with each other." Well, it's a good thing I was sitting down, because that statement really hit me hard. Unlike some of the people here on PC--and I greatly admire this about you--I do not talk to my T about our relationship (unless it is through dreamwork). I just accept we are close and connected, but don't talk about it. To hear him acknowledge how great we are together made me feel really, really good. I told him, I wanted that to continue.

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Wow. That must have been wonderful. It's such a weird experience when Ts makes those unexpected comments that are worthy of us hitting the floor. I usually just sit there dumbfounded like a total jerk, lol.

I think it was just the right time for him to disclose this seeing as how you sick you are of dealing with the divorce. In the here-and-now moment the focus was on you and Ts relationship-- not you and your husband's.