Usually I just assume they're interested until they give me proof otherwise. So it's not like I was all "do you like me?" "Do I look fat in this?" "What do you like about me?". So I don't feel like I was overdoing it with the yearning for reassurance or cheesiness. I typed the conversation in the response to the previous post.
But I spoke to him yesterday and told him that I think we should take a break while he's gone and he agreed. We haven't had enough time to get to know each other or to build mutual trust for that kind of commitment.
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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
What kind if reassurance are you seeking? Do you seek it often?, because I get the distinct impression (re:scumbags) that this is not just about him being away.
My suggestion?
Be direct, straightforward, blunt....
Because whatever it is you're doing is currently open to interpretation. i.e cheesy, and thus not working.
On the other hand, if you simply are being cheesy, that's how u do things and you're not interested in changing it , (IDK I wasn't there) then accept that you're kinda cheesy, and work with it.
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