Both of us!
I am trying to learn how to respond appropriately to her behaviors because I still parent as is she does not have BP/ODD and it doesn't work. Ultimately I think if I have the tools to parent her and help her the knock on effect will be that my life will get easier too. The way she is behaving just now there is NO way she can go to college at 18. She won't cope. I need tools to help her become a funtioning adult. I'm so, so worried about her right now.