It can be typical to connect to someone who is caring for you during a very vulnerable period of your life when you are needing care. Obviously you needed care or you wouldn't have been in the hospital & thal length of time creates more of a connection....but remember the connection in a romantic way is a one sided one...your side. He was caring for you because it's his JOB. Don't get that kind of care confused with a romantic caring. Get control of your emotions based on reality, not on your fantasy or you will only cause yourself to feel hurt when he did nothing to leade you on to those feelings. Psych hospitals are NOT the place to let emotions take control. Stick with mindful reality.