Thank you SO SO much. This is what I need. Real, constructive advice. We have tried everything, and it didn't help that it was only in the last few weeks we knew what she had. I've spent years doing the wrong thing because I didn't realise she was BP, but now I'm trying to learn as much as I can, so I CAN parent her correctly.
I am going to ask about and look into those things you suggested. I had no idea about an 18 credit graduation requirement. If she did the FLVS route, would she stay at home to do that because I think she needs structure and to be out of the house. I don't want her home alone all day. The counselor called me in because she was never out of her office saying all sorts of things and it raised a red flag. They are on the verge with her because she is so defiant, and she gets herself involved in drama and is in tears almost every day. She doesn't yet have an IEP but I think it may help. OK, so we were all in family. She's an only child and we were going to family therapy but the counselor eventually said there was no pint my daughter going back to her because nothing the counselor said she did. I was like Groundhog Day every session. The counselor said she would continue to see my husband and I to help us know what to do. Should I get my daughter a counselor of her own? The only thing is I was told that my daughter will tell the counselor all her sob stories but a good counselor will see through it. She acts like she is persecuted, but her version of reality is so not accurate.
Anyway, thanks so much. It's advice like this I need. Things I haven't thought of. I appreciate your help!