What did you do that caused this situation to end up in court in the first place? Why if you know the skills weren't you using them to keep yourself out of this situation? We can know skills but if we don't use them they aren't going to help us.

I would definitely talk to the provider. Sometimes when things aren't helping it's our own attitude that's getting in the way of the help. Not wanting to get better could be one such attitude. Why would you not want to get better?