Hi there,

How long have you been feeling this way?

My husband told me about his previous girl friend just few weeks after we started dating (we were not married then obviously). It took me months, if not a full year, to get over the thought that he was intimate with somebody else. Even the fact that they never had actual sex didn't fix my feelings. I would talk to him about it and he would say "I wouldn't have dated her if I knew that I will find you" and "it is you I am about to marry". No lying was involved here and I was still mad at him. Yes, mad at him for doing something long before we met.

Having this said, I really feel for you. It's a nasty feeling that keeps nagging. Give it some time, it will go away.

Why did he lie about it in the first place? Maybe he knew what your reaction would be and he tried to protect your feelings?