IMHO your husband is selfish. IMHO his sort of "I'm not responsible for your happiness" attitude is why many relationships fail. No, it's not another persons responsibility to make you happy, but a marriage is a partnership and once you say "I do" you're in it TOGETHER. That is, read between the lines. He's essentially saying he doesn't give a damn about your happiness. I say start making plans to get out because why would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that?!?