I've googled my T and I talked about my curiosity and guilt over it.

She said that she knows everything up on the internet that she puts up can be found.

I told her I found her locked down Facebook, her LinkedIn and her public Instagram.

She says if I do something that makes her uncomfortable or crosses a boundary, she'll let me know.

I regularly look at her instagram and kind of like the (still highly filtered and censored) glimpse into her non therapist life.

Knowing she has a happy life (though of course, she has made reference to bad days too) and is passionate about her work makes me feel more secure that she has what she needs in life to be able to "be present" in her job, hopefully without burning out.