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Old Dec 07, 2015, 08:30 PM
Ladytmt Ladytmt is offline
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
I'm not certain how the men will do whatever you allow remark fits your situation, at all? Sometimes people give well intentioned blanket statements when they just have no idea what to say?

I'm really sorry to hear that you got strung along. How long had you dated before discovering the truth?

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Another good point. The person who made the statement acts like "know it all" but i really don't know what her intentions were with that statement. She doesn't even know all of what happened only parts of it so i would like to think that she would not be so judgmental not knowing all of what happened. I know we all have different ways of processing things but with a wound thats still healing i felt it was a little out of place.
We had dated 6 months. I know it doesn't seem long but i had feelings for him but they were obviously based on a lie.