About your post that posted as I wrote my response.

Sometimes, it's necessary to listen to your gut. Something knawed at you enough to research him.

In your case, something supported that. If you'd turned up nothing, then something else was missing in your relationship that needed exploration. I cannot think exactly what the missing need would be precisely off the top of my head. Certainly a therapy worthy topic as you recover from this guy.

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