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Originally Posted by Ladytmt
Well sometimes i feel the need to beat myself up for whatever mistake i made which is I really should've snooped for information about him months before i actually did but he had a way with words. I'm tired of feeling this way.
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Originally Posted by Ladytmt
I started to notice his actions were not matching his words. So i explored and i found, then i confronted him
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No need to feel guilt. I understand how that is, however. It's taboo territory to snoop on others and when in a relationship there runs the risk of being accused of being insecure. Insecurities don't form in a vacuum. And of course, the trust dissolved, as well. Which isn't a great place to build a solid foundation. So that fact gives a feeling of inner conflict. Perhaps it goes against the grains of your own internal integrity? Or something, at the very least, taught not to do in a relationship.
Was discovering the Truth, really a mistake?
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